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Her company was finally purchased and she told me she had to "say goodbye" to all her friends. She no longer wanted to stay and took a decent severance package. She stayed out late at night at numerous parties while I cared for the kid and her Dad as well. She then informed me that one of her male colleagues was coming to NYC from CA and she was going to meet him in the city. I felt a little funny about this because I didn't know that the two of them were close. She then informs me that she's spending the afternoon with him, going to the Central Park Boathouse for dinner later and she's arranged for a rowboat so they can go out on the lake together. I forgot to mention that in the Summer, she had made the same arrangements for us and the kids to go out to the same place and celebrate a major anniversary. So, my wife thinks it's OK to introduce me to the idea that she has a close relationship with another guy from work by taking him to the same place she brought the kids and I for our celebration. I regret that I let her go ahead with this. I was thinking if I made a big deal out of it she'd see a weakness or think I'm acting like a jealous nut. However, the next day, after I asked her about how her date was, she basically told me next to nothing about what they talked about or what they did. At that point, I went ballastic and told her if this type of thing ever happened again I'd leave. She told me I was blowing everything out of proportion. I then decided to review her work emails when she was out and left her work PC on at home. What was clear was that she had very very close relationships with several men from her office and these relationships were all taking place in the same timeframe that her hostility was being aimed at me. Things are now much better. This because I took control and insisted that her behavior had to change. I also said that I had a responsibility for the deteriorating relationship as well. The question now is -- can I really trust my wife? And it's a serious issue. The emails that I reviewed were between her and three other male office "buddies" who were obviously more than just office buddies but probably less than lovers. I had to deal with two years of hostility in part as a result of the connections she made. She still denies that the endless lunches and intimate conversations she had with these men behind my back and behind their wives' backs were not connected whatsoever to situation. She says "I'm just a friendly person." I sometimes wonder if I should stick around until something else happens. But as I said, things are much much better.

Heaveth

And so I treaded VERY carefully despite everything. As much as I deplore cheating and cheaters, he seemed sincere in his regret regarding his past and spent the last 5-6 years trying to be a better man and an even better father to his children.

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I have never seen a woman posting about why men won't get any response on a dating site yet there a hundreds of posts of men asking what they are doing wrong.

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Jude

On a side note, how good is a girls hearing? I ended a conversation with something like a 'thanks beautiful' under my breath and was not sure if she'd heard it. Funny thing is for the next half hour, I noticed her finding excuses to come past me even more often than usual.

Outfits

This one didn't help me but I know a lot of people in a similar situation also liked the book Codependency No More.

Tetrachloromethane

It's just up to you hun. I've had guys tell me they were different...and they weren't, and then I've had guys who said they were different and were. Either way, it's a gamble, but isn't everything in life? You've just got to decide. Sometimes the thought of being hurt or used is scary, but it's something that only YOU can decide.

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Did it make you laugh? lol

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Since it's no big deal neither is his. And he better not even try to see me around that week either. Not happening.

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Cronk

Oh and don't date guys that are emotionally invested in someone else despite what they tell you.

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For example. When we first started dating, years ago now, my guy's exGF (with whom he'd broken up a year earlier) told him that she wanted to remain friends with him, because she still wanted emotional closeness. He even admitted to me that she still carried a torch for him, but he also told me I didn't need to worry because he wasn't interested and was largely hanging out with her out of guilt.

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I was apparently rendered speechless

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